Journal-blog about my life as a heteroflexible male in an open relationship along with posts of various things that turn me on.

outrageouswizardofnottingham:

Its horrible that we live in a world where this is happening

(Source: crawfords-slut)

Because we live in such a monogamy-centered society, it makes sense that many people can only conceive of non-monogamy in what ultimately still amounts to monogamous terms. There is a common misconception that a polyamorous relationship is really no different from an open-relationship agreement: one committed couple, with some lighthearted fun on the side. But the word “polyamory,” by definition, means loving more than one. Many of us have deeply committed relationships with more than one partner, with no hierarchy among them and no core “couple” at the heart of it all. To me, this notion that there must be one more important relationship, one true love, feels a lot like people looking at same-sex couples and thinking that one person must be the “man” in the relationship and the other must be the “woman.” After all, both of these misunderstandings result from people trying to graft their normative conceptions of love and relationships onto people who are partnering in non-normative ways. It seems that it is somewhat easy for many people to acknowledge that humans are capable of loving one person and still enjoying sex with others (assuming, of course, that the terms of their relationship make such behavior acceptable). But it is much harder for people to think outside the fairy-tale notion of “the one” and imagine that it might be possible to actually romantically love more than one person simultaneously.

skindeeptales:

Victor Montaghini

skindeeptales:

Victor Montaghini

my-sexy-mind:

Not even close…

my-sexy-mind:

Not even close…

(Source: wetkittensquoets)

(Source: helloallexposed)

thacunninglinguist:

Presentation is key…

thacunninglinguist:

Presentation is key…

(Source: passion-xxx)

rubmeraw:

bumfinger:

Please?

Do this to me

rubmeraw:

bumfinger:

Please?

Do this to me

(Source: pussyeatingonly)

Conflict Conscience

I’m more fully recognizing two halves of my mind that are competing with each other.  On the one side, I want to just do fun frivolous nerd things like watch movies, read comics, and consume other pop culture silliness. On the other side I was to let all that go and focus on pursuing financial independence and spiritual evolution.  One might say “Why not have both?” But they literally feel to be mutually exclusive

surreal

surreal

(Source: gh-05-t)